Finding yourself involves determining who you truly are as a person. Some people may never discover who they are or what they truly want in life, because they do not do the searching needed to actually find themselves. Finding yourself may involve a lot of effort but this hard work is worth it because you will grow as a person.
It's far better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone so far.
You must expect great things of yourself before you can do them.
Real loss only possible when you love something more than yourself.