Some circumstances can be controlled, but others may occur without any opportunity to change them. Often people take credit when something goes right, but when things fail the circumstances are commonly blamed instead of the individual taking personal responsibility. No matter what circumstances you find yourself in how you react will reveal your true character as a person.
Never let a person get comfortable doing you wrong, Stop it before it happens.
Real difficulties can be overcome; it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.