A blessing in disguise is something that seems like a bad thing but that really turns out to be beneficial in some way. If you lose you job but then find a better one then the loss is said to have been a blessing in disguise, because something good came out of the event. When something happens try to see the positive side, there is always one no matter how bad the event may seem at the time. This will help you see the silver lining and realize the blessings that are offered, even when you do not realize they are there.
The thankful heart opens our eyes to a multitude of blessings that continually surround us.
You don't meet people by accident. There is always a reason: A blessing or a lesson.