You attract the right things when you have a sense of who you are.
If you are being yourself then you are not pretending to be anything that you are not. People who feel the need to lie or be fake in order to gain approval are not being real or honest. Eventually you will have to let the mask drop, and people will find out who you really are inside. Being yourself right from the start is the best way to begin any relationship, and you will know that the individual likes you for who you are and not what you pretend to be.