Being there means that you are present physically, or that you provide emotional support in some way. When you are being there for a friend or relative this means that you are helping them through a rough patch or tough time. If you have a plan for your future then you are considered successful when this plan is realized, and being there means that you reach the goals that you have set.
Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.
Real isn't who with you at your celebration.. Real is who standing next to you at rock bottom.